1. Don't be late. We all know that though don't we? Believe it or not, being too early can leave the same bad impression as being late can. Interviewing candidates for a job I'm trying to fill has added one more thing to my already long to-do list. I don't want to get a call from the receptionist 15 minutes before we're scheduled to meet letting me know that you're in the lobby already. I need that time to focus on whatever else it is I'm suppose to be doing. Arrive 5 minutes early, no earlier.
2. Listen to the question being asked of you, then answer THAT question. Seems easy enough right? It's not though. Interview candidates often answer questions like beauty pageant contestants. If I ask you why you're interested in working for a startup when you've been working for a large corporations for years, don't tell me what you didn't like about working for a large corporation. Tell me what appeals to you about a startup. If you're nervous and you didn't understand the question or you didn't hear it because you were zoned out, that's ok, just ask me to repeat it. I'd rather do that then hear your go off on a tangent about something I didn't ask you about.
3. I can't emphasize number 3 enough. You've got to be confident in your abilities. Try your absolute best to lose the sweaty palms, shaky voice and for the love of god, avoid #2 at all costs. I know that people are out of work for all sorts of reasons. Some have a safety net, others may be hanging by a thread, "if I don't get this job I'll lose my house/my car etc." That's serious business and clearly when the latter is the case, there's a lot at stake. No matter what your situation, remember, you've been called in for a reason, and believe me, there is no shortage of people looking for a job. If you can't be confident in you, how can I?
Honestly, 99 out of 100 times, I'll hire the person who's less qualified on paper but showed confidence in an interview because I know they'll be more self sufficient on the job. Shhhh, managers secret here, most managers don't want to manage people on a daily basis. We've got our own jobs to do and are looking for people who can make decisions on their own. People with confidence can do that.
4. Make and hold eye contact, while smiling. This is a sure sign of someone with confidence, and remember, more often than not, confidence gets you the job. No joke though, doing both at the same time is definitely a skill that needs to be developed over time. I kind think of it like patting your head and rubbing your belly at the same time. How many of you just tried that? I did, and might I add, unsuccessfully. Anyways, it's totally unnatural and so is holding eye contact and smiling at strangers.
Over the years I've perfected the skill by practicing in elevators. Typically you get in, shoot someone a quick glance, and then you immediately look down at the ground or at your cellphone right? The next time you're in an elevator, I challenge you to test yourself. Hold eye contact for even 5 seconds while smiling at a stranger. It's harder then you think at first, but after a dozen or so awkward exchanges, you'll start to feel more comfortable.
5. Dress for the job and the company your interviewing for. Don't show up for an interview at a law firm wearing glitter eye shadow, a summer dress and open toe sandals (I've actually seen this). On the flip side, don't walk into an interview at a boutique wearing a conservative business suit either. Over time I've found that a sheath dress (in black), a cardigan (here's where you incorporate some color) and a closed toe sling back pump (either in black or nude) works across all spectrum. Add a statement necklace or a watch, carry a nice structured bag and you've got a look that is both polished and stylish.
The next time you find yourself on the hunt for a new job remember: don't arrive to early, listen carefully, confidence is key, smile and make eye contact and dress the part. These tips will help you hit it out of the park. I'd love to hear your thoughts and interviewing tips. What have you found works great for you? Are you a hiring manager? Share your secrets with us.
this is so great!!! it's cool to hear this from a manager's perspective. i'm the worst at interviews- shy and nervous, even though I'm not like that in my daily work ethic! next time I go for an interview I'll remember these tips. Thanks for sharing!
ReplyDeleteThank you so much for dropping by! I know it's hard to drop kick your nerves, especially if you're dying to get out of a job you hate or you've been unemployed for awhile. Just remember, you're there because they think you deserve to be. Make yourself believe that they'd be lucky to have you and not the other way around :)
DeleteWelcome back! I'm not going to lie, I'm a bit disappointed this post is not about Vegas ;) (j/k) I'm always nervous on interviews, but I always get call backs on the ones I think I did the worst in which is weird. The worst job I've ever had was working as a staffing consultant...interview people ALL day.
ReplyDeleteAwww, no worries, my Vegas recap is coming soon. Let me just say I'm at least 5lbs heavier than I was when I left :)
Deletepeople forget that while they're being interviewed, SO IS THE COMPANY by the interviewee! since i've come that realization years ago, interviews don't bother me at all...in fact, i'm the most relaxed person in interviews. i also find that pausing for a few seconds after every question allows the question that was asked "set in", give you a bit of time to gather your thoughts before answering.
ReplyDeletegreat tips!
-kathy
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Great add Kathy! Pausing is definitely helpful and it shows that you're taking a second to think before just letting your brain spew. My motto, they'd be lucky to have me. Thanks for dropping by :)
DeleteHi, I missed you! You came back with a bang, these tips are great! The eye contact+smiling thing is really hard, I always end up looking away - for some strange reason it feels like flirting to me, and I don't want to give off the wrong impression. Don't know what that's all about.
ReplyDeleteI can't wait to hear about Vegas! So happy you are BACK!
Thank you so much for the warm welcome back Miriam. It means the world to me. I've missed you and this space more than you know :) As for this post, I've wanted to write it for awhile now and finally found the time. The eye contact is tough, but I promise, it's such a powerful tool and can absolutely be mastered. I hear ya on not wanting to come across as flirty though. I'd run for the hills if anyone I was interviewing with took it that way, yikes!
DeleteThese are AWESOME tips!!!! Much different from what you usually hear. Very helpful!
ReplyDeleteThank you Amanda. Hope you're day is off to a great start!
DeleteShannon, back with a bang! Great list, I think it all boils down to confidence with me and often I find I'm most confident when I've sufficiently prepared, have areas to talk around and have had a good night's sleep. I have been known to have BAD hangovers in my younger years and still get jobs...lol.
ReplyDeleteWelcome back! I missed you! XO